We keep wondering: why our children disobey us, why they bare no respect to others, why they carry no responsibility towards themselves at least, why they are technology and computer addicts, and why they don't care... We keep asking why they are totally different from their ancestors!!
But have we ever figured out the real answer?
In fact, these wonders have waked up in my mind after a discussion we had had in the
Philosophy of Education course. We were arguing: what social institution plays the biggest role in our children’s education nowadays?
We mentioned four main social institutions: family, media, school, peers, and religious institutions. We had to arrange them in the order of which influences the children’s education these days. In fact, we had different argument and different points of view.
I myself have come up with the following conclusion: media is controlling our children’s education, especially the moral aspect of it. Our children’s values, beliefs and behavior is completely influenced and controlled by the different aspects of media they encounter on a daily basis.
Parents’ role is somehow diminishing, and they are more and more busy. They tend to express trust in their kids, and that’s the end of the matter for them.
Religious schools’ role is extremely minimal in our days. Schools, I believe, for one reason or another, are failing to play an efficient role.
Peers are actually being exposed to the same media, sharing more and more ideas and experiences.
Too many are the hours that children spend with media daily. They exceed the time spent with parents, doubled and tripled.
This puts a huge responsibility on our side: how can we, teachers and parent, ace this dilemma? Should we try to ban, control, regulate, investigate, or implement media’s influence?
Whatever we take, we have to be ware: media in fact IS controlling our kids’ future, so the action we take now is fateful and critical!